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Passion!
Kelly Gunther • Jul 13, 2020
What's your love?
This week on the blog, I want to talk about your passion! What's yours!?
I felt inspired to write on this topic for a few different reasons & here’s why!
A month ago I was invited to a speaking/coaching event that I was super excited about & couldn’t wait to give my presentation up in front of a group of people & get coached on where & how to get better. That has now moved to online & will look a little different, instead of being in front of an audience, I’ll be so, but behind a computer screen, as this feels is the “new normal.”
The reason why I felt inspired is because now I get another chance to start to tell my story & yet be able to start picking it all apart to know when & where to really dive in & make sure I know what I’m saying is making all sense! Cause I know me, and I know sometimes it can be well all over the place! Practice really does make perfect! When you practice right!
I felt inspired actually just by my own personal story just with everything that I have gone through. I say that more so because of giving a presentation on the topic of skating & finding your passion, but yet never letting it define you either, but having something you love that makes you so happy that you are just truly so passionate about it! Are a few examples!
My niece's skating coach Emily. Leah(my niece) always said I’d be good friends with Emily because we were the same person, I didn’t even know who Emily was before I moved & met her in Ohio! I had only just known of her as my niece’s coach! Well little did we know, the 12-year-old, was right & Emily & I became fast friends! My brother who also knows her would have said the same thing! It was a friendship where it just clicked! She also being a skater knew about skating & how it was always her love & passion for it, and still is! Now just in another light of coaching & giving back to others along the way! Emily sat down with me to help me go over my presentation as well as sort the ideas out! So with talking out loud made me realize more of how I always loved skating, and how no matter how hard it was, or the training was or even having my learning disability, I never let any of those get in the way, as it was my love for the sport that I enjoyed so much. Just always goes to show no matter how much you love something & you are drivin by it, you won’t let anything stop you!
I see that with my niece who pitches softball, as she loves the sport & is completely beyond passion in it. I see a mirror, imagine of myself looking back at me. She’s driven, determined, and always wants more of it. More of it meaning she now has a 50ft cage in her backyard to practice pitching! I, on the other hand, love it! As I see & know how much better she wants to be, and become!
When we find what we love so much we enjoy it & it doesn’t even seem like “work” because it’s easy for us to love it, and keep at it, and keep getting better & better!
Me being a little older & stepping back & seeing everyone’s passions for what they love, makes me so excited for them as they’ve found what it is!
We can have all different kinds of passions & enjoy them all in different ways as well! For me, I love jogging & just knowing when my body doesn’t hurt, I can enjoy it & be passionate about it, as it’s something that I can push myself as if I was on my skates. I think once we become such an athlete, it always lives within us with everything after! As also for me, with my writing & being driven to getting out there to be able to inspire you! That’s my dream & something I’m passionate about because I know I love what I want to do!
I think once we find something we love so much it just becomes a part of who we are! Even for athletes who then retire after their sport, it’s the famous question of “what’s next?” What’s your new love & passion going to be? Some might know, & some might not know, but I truly believe that is okay, because we aren’t all made to be perfect & have it figured out right away, but to keep moving & pushing ourselves to know what our next dream is! We don’t ever have to sell ourselves short & just pick one dream, pick as many as you want! Keep dreaming as much as you love what you want to do!
I also want to say, don’t let it become you or ever define you as much as you are so passionate about it, you have to know who you are within yourself. Don’t let yourself get lost within the sport, but always be true to yourself. I know it is easier said than done because we are doing something we love so much, yes that is completely absolutely fine, just don’t lose yourself within. Always be you for who you are also! Don’t forget that!
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